When it comes to finding work as an escort, whether you are male or female, gay or straight, you can decide to work for an escort agency, or join the ranks of the independent escorts, or indies. Which you should choose is very much a personal matter, but you need to consider the pros and cons of each carefully prior to commencing work.

If you are new to the business then it could be a good idea to work for an agency, at least for a while, so that you can learn the ins and outs of the escort business. This will also give you the chance to talk to other escorts employed by the agency, and benefit from sharing their experiences.

The Benefits of Working for an Agency

There is more to working as an escort than many people think when they first begin, and it can be nice to have someone else to take care of some things for you, while you find your feet. For example, the agency will handle the advertising, will screen potential clients, will manage your diary for you, and will take care of booking hotel rooms and organising transport, when appropriate.

Perhaps most importantly for many escorts, the agency implements a safety net as they know where you are and what you are doing at any given moment, and the client is very conscious of this. This provides you with a notable degree of protection, and with a backup team to call on if you run into trouble.

Speaking of trouble, the law also plays a significant part in many escort’s lives, and the degree to which it affects you will hinge on where you are working, and how you are operating your business. Many escort agencies have been around for a while, and are very accustomed to what you and cannot do. This again can be enough to stop you inadvertently running into problems.

The Disadvantages of Working for an Agency

An escort agency is the same as any other business, and some are extremely well run while others are poorly run, and may even simply exploit their escorts without a care for anything other than the profit the business can make. For this reason, you need to do your homework and make sure you know exactly what sort of agency you are joining.

While an agency will take care of much of the background work for you, such as advertising, client screening and arranging appointments, they will also ask certain things from you in return. For example, they may require you to be available for work between particular hours each day, and determine how much time off you can have each week. They may also dictate where you have to be when you are not working, perhaps letting you go home, as long as they can get you on the phone, or requiring you to be available in the agency’s office.

The agency is also in the business of making profit and does this generally by taking a cut of the fees paid by the client for providing him or her with an escort. Fees can be large, especially in major cities where it is not unusual for clients to pay several hundred dollars an hour for an escort. You will have to look carefully at the financial arrangements sought after by different agencies and select what is, and what is not, acceptable to you.

The Benefits of Working as an Independent Escort

Private escorts are esentially their own bosses, deciding for themselves when they work, who they accept as clients, and what they are comfortable to do. In effect you are entertaining all of the benefits, including the monetary benefits, of being self employed and, for many people, these advantages often outweigh any disadvantages.

The Disadvantages of Working as an Independent Escort

Working for yourself means that you will have to take care of everything yourself, including such things as advertising, sizing up potential clients, booking hotel rooms, organising transport, and indeed handling anything else that comes up. This can be a lot of work initially, but much of this day to day work becomes easier as time goes on. One thing that you have to deal with though, and which will never become irrevelant, are the risks that come along with escort work.

Like it or not, escort work is potentially very dangerous, and you must not only be constantly vigilant, but must take positive steps to care for yourself. The list of precautions you need to take is far too extensive to explain them all here, but will include such things as ensuring that any room you use with a client has an emergency exit that you can use, and being positive that someone knows where you are, and that the client is aware of this fact. Convincing yourself that this is a safe enough area and that nothing is going to happen to you does not work, and safety needs to be the priority on the list of things to think about for independent escorts.

On Balance

As with any job there are both good and bad points to becoming an escort, and this is deifnitely one job that you need to go into with a careful mindset. That said, independent escorts can enjoy a very nice lifestyle if they get it right, and the job can be good fun if you have the right personality for it, take the time to learn what you are doing, and set your business up properly.

Over the last few years I have noticed a huge increase in the number of clients coming to see me for pornography addiction. With the easy access of porn on line, and on tablets and phones, many men are having trouble resisting the urge to view porn more and more often, and it can be scary how quickly this can turn to an addiction.

Some of the key elements in the development of a porn addiction are starting to watch porn at a young age, controlling or uninvolved parents, loneliness and isolation, seeing a model of unhealthy relationships and early sexual abuse.

Once you have realized that you are addicted, your path to freedom starts with the realization that you’ve lost control around sex. You begin to acknowledge that you’re acting regressively and that you are probably a mature man in many ways, but you don’t understand intimacy and have confused intimacy with sexual activity.

Another thing that can be a he realisation is that you can’t get enough of what won’t satisfy you. Objectifying and sexualizing people is an never ending, negative process that yields a few minutes of excitement, a brief orgasm, then hours, days, weeks, months and years of fear, pain, shame, self doubt, self criticism, judgement and anger.

Doing this work will free you from the shackles of your negative sexual story.

Many men who have done so look back and see this as their rite of passage into true manhood, free of old compulsive sexuality. You can then take the energy you are expending on addictive behavior and channel it into a more satisfying career, intimacy and better relationships with a partner and with your family and friends. You’ll really get a life in the full sense.

Counselling for Porn addiction with qualified and experience Psychologists is available in 60 locations Australia wide at the Hart Centre. Call 1300 830 552 to find out more.

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Cost
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