Anger management courses help save marriages

“I thought I was in a pretty good marriage with occasional arguments until my wife said to me “If the next year of our marriage is as bad as the last year, I’m outta here”.

She felt as if she was always walking on eggshells so as not to set me off. Any time she disagreed with me, I immediately went on the attack and tried to defeat her point of view by almost any means. So when she told me she had taken all she could stand, I took her seriously and decided that I had to do some frank soul searching to find out why I kept losing my temper, so I could not lose the person who meant the most to me in the world”.

As I looked back many of my habitual ways of dealing with the world were driven by anger. I was an aggressive driver, using my horn and my “freeway finger” whenever people weren’t travelling the way I thought they should be. If the mechanic told me something needed fixing on my car, I was sure he was exaggerating for his own financial gain. I thought I had an unusual ability to see through a hypocrite, and since I thought that most people were, I got a lot of practice of seeing through them.”

This is one story of a man who came to me for help in dealing with his anger problem.

As a Psychologist, I’ve seen many of my clients lose their jobs, wives and opportunities because they were simply not able to handle the normal frustrations and disappointments in life.
They argue, they insult and they sulk.

They come to see themselves as ineffective, unlucky, of just plain losers. They don’t admit this to anyone, but deep inside they don’t like themselves. Their anger gets in the way of their ability to be good bosses, good workers and good family men.

For many men who have been charged with serious crimes, such as assault and murder, it is clear that these are not pre-meditated. These men didn’t start out with the intention of hurting others.

They reacted impulsively, and often out of anger. Someone insulted them and they struck back. Situations they could have walked away from became major confrontations because they did not know how to handle themselves other than aggressively. They know their behaviour is stupid and they don’t know why they did what they did.

Domestic violence programs are over run. Our prisons are overcrowded and even our schools are not altogether safe. But men who are angry do have a choice. No-one can change the whole world, but there are many things you can change about the way you see yourself, others and the world, and come to understand what triggers your anger along with learning what other actions you can take to keep yourself and others safe. Your marriage, your job and your happiness depend on it.

Individualised anger management counselling is run by the Hart Centre Australia. We have qualified Psychologists in 60 locations around Australia who can help you become the man you want to be. Phone 1300830552 for more information on Anger management counselling and anger management courses.

Private Escorts – Employment Options

When it comes to finding work as an escort, whether you are male or female, gay or straight, you can decide to work for an escort agency, or join the ranks of the independent escorts, or indies. Which you should choose is very much a personal matter, but you need to consider the pros and cons of each thoroughly before starting work.

If you are new to the business then it might be a good idea to work for an agency, even if only for a while, so that you can learn the ins and outs of the escort business. This will also give you the opportunity to talk to other escorts employed by the agency, and learn from sharing their experiences.

The Benefits of Working for an Agency

There is more to working as an escort than many people think when they first start, and it can be contenting to have someone else to take care of some things for you, while you are getting comfortable. For example, the agency will handle the advertising, will screen potential clients, will manage your diary for you, and will take care of booking hotel rooms and arranging transport, when needed.

Perhaps most vitally for many escorts, the agency implements a safety net as they know where you are and what you are doing at any given moment, and the client is very aware of this. This provides you with a notable level of safety, and with a backup team to call on if you run into trouble.

Speaking of trouble, the law also plays an important role in many escort’s lives, and the degree to which it affects you will depend on where you are working, and how you are exceuting your business. Many escort agencies have been around for a while, and are extremely accustomed to what you and cannot do. This again can be enough to stop you unintentionally running into problems.

The Disadvantages of Working for an Agency

An escort agency is the same as any other business, and some are very well run while others are poorly run, and may even simply take advantage of their escorts without a care for anything other than the profit the business can make. For this reason, you need to do your homework and make sure you know exactly what sort of agency you are joining.

While an agency will take care of much of the background work for you, such as advertising, client checks and organising appointments, they will also need certain things from you in return. For example, they may need you to be available for work between particular hours each day, and decide how much time off you can have each week. They may also decide where you must be when you are not working, perhaps allowing you to go home, as long as they can get you on the phone, or requiring you to be available in the agency’s office.

The agency is also in the business of making profit and does this generally by taking a percentage of the fees paid by the client for providing him or her with an escort. Fees can be high, especially in major cities where it is not uncommon for clients to pay several hundred dollars an hour for an escort. You will have to look thoroughly at the financial arrangements sought after by different agencies and select what is, and what is not, acceptable to you.

The Advantages of Working as an Independent Escort

Private escorts are esentially their own bosses, choosing for themselves when they work, who they accept as clients, and what they are comfortable to do. In effect you are enjoying all of the benefits, including the monetary benefits, of being self employed and, for many people, these benefits often overtake any disadvantages.

The Disadvantages of Working as an Independent Escort

Working for yourself means that you will have to handle everything yourself, including such things as advertising, sizing up potential clients, booking hotel rooms, organising transport, and indeed confronting anything else that comes up. This can be a great deal of work at first, but much of this day to day work becomes easier as time goes on. One thing that you have to deal with though, and which will never go away, are the risks that come hand in hand with escort work.

Like it or not, escort work is potentially very dangerous, and you must not only be constantly wary, but must take positive steps to cover yourself. The list of precautions you need to take is far too extensive to detail them all here, but will include such things as certifying that any room you use with a client has an emergency exit that you can use, and making sure that someone knows where you are, and that the client is aware of this fact. Telling yourself that this is a safe enough area and that nothing is going to happen to you does not work, and safety needs to be the priority on the list of things to consider for independent escorts.

On Balance

As with any job there are both good and bad sides to being an escort, and this is certainly one job that you need to go into with a heedful mindset. That said, independent escorts can enjoy a very nice lifestyle if they get it right, and the job can be good fun if you have the right personality for it, take the time to learn what you are doing, and set your business up properly.

How to Soundproof Windows

Acoustic double glazing depends on the addition of a secondary glazing layer offset from an existing window, optimally by 100mm. Soundblock offer two solutions to double glaze windows for noise and thermal insulation – Magnetic Acrylic Double Glazing and Acoustic Aluminium Double Glazing. Article body:

What is Window Double Glazing?
Double glazing depends on the addition of a secondary glazing layer offset from an existing window optimally by 100mm. Add our acoustic double glazing to your windows or specify our solutions on new projects. Double glazed windows remove noise transfer by up to 70% and reduce heating costs by 35%.

Double Glazing System – Magnetic Acrylic Windows
Magnetic Window Soundproofing System functions very simply by adding a PVC sub frame on the inside of your window. This double glazing system greatly increases noise removal. The acrylic window is sealed in place, creating an air space with the existing window, thereby producing an insulating barrier.

Double Glazing System – Acoustic Aluminium Windows
This double glazing system reduces the transfer of noise from outside to inside. These sound proof windows can be specially manufactured to meet specific size requirements. The Soundblock Aluminium Window System is an add on glazing system, creating a double glazed unit to greatly reduce noise transmission through existing windows up to 70%. As well it provides extra security and safety to the property.

How to Soundproof Windows
To successfully soundproof your windows you will need to have a sufficient distance between your primary window and the edge of your internal window reveal. Ideally this gap is 100mm. This will allow an acoustic secondary window, either our Soundblock Acrylic Magnetic or Soundblock Aluminium windows, to be installed to effectively provide an overall sound reduction of 40-43db.

Noise reduction and soundproofing solutions
Founded in 1999, Soundblock Solutions is a respected privately-owned Australian creator of soundproofing products and solutions. We can help to create a quieter, more comfortable environment in any environment, whether it’s in the home, office, restaurants, hotels, marine or industrial.

Representing leading Australian manufacturers of acoustic products, Soundblock offers a huge range of double glazing and window sound insulation and noise control products for commercial and domestic use. We will determine your exact noise problems and supply and install the most effective product or combination of products for your specific situation. Talk to us for expert advice and a comprehensive, cost-effective solution for all of your soundproofing, double glazing, noise control and acoustic requirements.

Soundblock are the experts in noise reduction and have found using window double glazing systems, that noise can be reduced by up to 70% or 41dB. Soundblock offer two solutions to double glaze windows for noise and thermal insulation.

Get Exciting Kids’ Entertainment With A Brisbane Childrens’ Magician

If you are organising a children’s party and want to make sure that it is full of energy, fun and the best entertainment, then you should consider hiring a talented magician for the occasion. The amazing range of tricks a magician can do inspires awe and excitement in everyone watching the show. Having a magician is the perfect way to liven up a party. Kids will absolutely love watching him make the impossible happen right before their eyes.

Johnny the Jester is a brilliant Brisbane childrens’ magician who performs magical shows for a range of kids events in venues across the greater Brisbane region. His incredible live shows are extremely popular with the kids who have a great time watching him perform awesome magic tricks or give fascinating demonstrations with live animals.

This childrens’ magician has had plenty of experience with working with kids and has done a great number of live performances. Johnny the Jester has been doing magical shows for fifteen years for various occasions and events across Australia and overseas. He has performed at many birthday parties, childcare centres, and schools. Because he is so popular, he also does live entertainment shows to huge crowds at a number of major shopping centres. With his level of experience and success at being a childrens’ magicians, he will be sure to wow at your child’s party.

His shows are filled with fun, games and excitement. Johnny the Jester’s magic show includes all sorts of marvelous tricks that will wow the kids and make them laugh. He also uses live animals in his performances such as Stewart the rabbit and Dorothy the dove, making them disappear and reappear to the childrens’ amazement. His popular magical python show is a hit with the kids. It is not only entertaining, but interactive and educational as well, teaching children about the different snake species in Brisbane.

Johnny the Jester caters for a variety of events in the Brisbane region, from birthday parties and school holiday fun to fetes. He can accommodate his shows for small groups of children to as many as 170,000 – so number is certainly not an issue. His magical shows can be performed indoors or outdoors, inside in the house or in the backyard. The shows go for a total of one hour, giving a great length of magical entertainment for the children to enjoy. Parents can sit back, relax and take pleasure in the show themselves.

Johnny the Jester is regularly entertaining and is available for bookings all days of the week. If you choose to book him for a weekday magic show, you can take advantage of the discount he offers. On weekdays he is also able to arrange free balloon figurines for children.

As you can see, getting a Brisbane childrens’ magician will add fun and enjoyment to any children’s party. And there’s no one better to do it than Johnny the Jester, a talented and experienced magician who provides interactive and highly entertaining live shows that will bring laughter and joy to all children who attend.

Want a Facelift for your Home? Start with Your Roof

Go outside and stand in front of your house. Now take a good look at your home. What are your thoughts? Do things look like they could use a little facelift?

Your roof makes up to 50% of your home front, and a roof restoration can often be the most economic way of updating the look of your homes exterior in addition to giving you the most dramatic results. A fresh coat of paint on your roof can really breathe new life into the look of the whole house, and bring a modern look to an older home.

Choosing your roofs colour is the most important element in achieving the look and style you are going for. There are a few ways to help you with this decision.

* Tear sheets. Flip through magazines and if something strikes you, tear it out and put it in a binder. Eventually you’ll realize a trend in your choices… Just make sure this ‘trend’ will suite the house your about to paint.

* Taking a look at your pre-existing brick, choose a colour in the brick and bring it up to your roof. This is a great way of giving your house flowing visual appeal, when colours blend easily to the eye it gives the feeling of a well coordinated style.

* Dark colour are very on trend, especially with a rendered finished wall. Greys, blacks and a dark terracotta always are in high demand. Retaining heat can be a repercussion of being on roofing’s colour trend in our warm Queensland climate. Insulation and heat productive paint are two little secretes that can minimize the heat that you’ll feel inside your home.

For Roof Restorations Brisbane, Roof Restoration Gold Coast or Brisbane Roofing Services, contact your roofing specialist at Brisco Roofing on 1300 166 209.